Mutual consent and LOVE is the fundamental thing in all marriages!
THE MARRIAGES ARE NOT DECIDED IN HEAVEN OR IN HELL BUT IT IS DECIDED IN THIS WORLD! PARENTS DECIDE MARRIAGES OF THEIR CHILDREN TAKING INTO ACCOUNT VARIOUS SOCIAL & CULTURAL ASPECTS. HOWEVER THEY DO NOT DECIDE THE MARRIAGES ACCORDING TO THE "WISHES" OF THE BRIDE OR THE BRIDEGROOM. LOVE DOES NOT FORM THE INTEGRAL PART OF MOST MARRIAGES NOWADAYS. ONLY ECONOMIC AND OTHER SOCIAL STANDING IN THE SOCIETY TAKES PROMINENCE WHEN BROKERING MARRIAGES.BECAUSE OF THIS TREND MOST OF THE MARRIAGES END-UP IN COURTS FOR SEPARATION AND DIVORCE!!EVEN THE COUPLES WHO MARRIED AFTER LOVE AND FORMAL UNDERSTANDING OF EACH OTHER BEFORE MARRIAGE ARE ALSO SEEK DIVORCE!! SO WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE MARRIAGE WHICH CONSIDERED AS THE SPIRITUAL UNION OF THE MAN AND THE WOMAN? IT IS THE " PERSONAL EGO" WHICH IS BEHIND THE DESTRUCTION OF THE MARRIED LIFE.PEOPLE WISH TO BE INDEPENDENT IN EVERYTHING AND EVERYWHERE AND THEY SEEK THIS EVEN IN MARITAL BLISS!!COUPLES HAVE BECOME SELFISH AND TRY TO DICTAT...