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A Man's sexual orientation is decided by his parentage !

Most of us still baffle as to why some people become as homosexuals, while the rest remains as heterosexuals! In rare cases, the homosexuals transform themselves as bi-sexual!! Why this happens and which causes this fundamental change in human sexual behavior is a mystery for most of us!! However no one would believe for certain that this is caused by the parentage! But this is the truth!The individual who had had a very strict disciplinary childhood without any childish enjoyment and parental and peer love would systematically transform himself as an introvert with peculiar behavioral disorder which is irreversible! For instance,if a boy or a girl is severely restricted by their parents or by their relatives not to move with their same aged groups, the adolescents repent within themselves and try to indulge in repetitive self -sexual pleasure which will finally lead to permanent mental disorder and ill-health. These poor fellows can not comprehend the true form of sex and it's rea...

Mutual consent and LOVE is the fundamental thing in all marriages!

THE MARRIAGES ARE NOT DECIDED IN HEAVEN OR IN HELL BUT IT IS DECIDED IN THIS WORLD! PARENTS DECIDE MARRIAGES OF THEIR CHILDREN TAKING INTO ACCOUNT VARIOUS SOCIAL & CULTURAL ASPECTS. HOWEVER THEY DO NOT DECIDE THE MARRIAGES ACCORDING TO THE "WISHES" OF THE BRIDE OR THE BRIDEGROOM. LOVE DOES NOT FORM THE INTEGRAL PART OF MOST MARRIAGES NOWADAYS. ONLY ECONOMIC AND OTHER SOCIAL STANDING IN THE SOCIETY TAKES PROMINENCE WHEN BROKERING MARRIAGES.BECAUSE OF THIS TREND MOST OF THE MARRIAGES END-UP IN COURTS FOR SEPARATION AND DIVORCE!!EVEN THE COUPLES WHO MARRIED AFTER LOVE AND FORMAL UNDERSTANDING OF EACH OTHER BEFORE MARRIAGE ARE ALSO SEEK DIVORCE!! SO WHAT IS WRONG WITH THE MARRIAGE WHICH CONSIDERED AS THE SPIRITUAL UNION OF THE MAN AND THE WOMAN? IT IS THE " PERSONAL EGO" WHICH IS BEHIND THE DESTRUCTION OF THE MARRIED LIFE.PEOPLE WISH TO BE INDEPENDENT IN EVERYTHING AND EVERYWHERE AND THEY SEEK THIS EVEN IN MARITAL BLISS!!COUPLES HAVE BECOME SELFISH AND TRY TO DICTAT...

Ilicit Affairs in asian society!

Why men do tend to have more illicit affairs than women? It is because they seek variety in sexual encounters!People love to taste different cuisine and it is accepted all over the world without much fuss and indeed it is encouraged often!! But in the case of sex it is forbidden in most societies due to cultural and religious reasons! The asian society does not permit either poligamy or poliandry.It is considered as taboo! However nowadays due to cross border migration and association with people of different cultural and religious backgrounds,the extra- marital affairs and illicit sexual encounters are seems to become common and are on the rise in asian society! People of asian origin search sex partners via internet and it is common in males and females as like in the west! Hindus marry Muslims and Christians and which were very uncommon and unthinkable in the past! The young asians yearn for sex in a foreign land because they have their own liberty and freedom to enjoy sex without m...

The behaviour of teenage boys!

The behavior of teenage boys aged between 13-18 is a mystery for most parents.The boys have a rash and indiscipline behavior during this period due to the reason that they attain puberty and the pubic hair is grown in genital area! In the case of a teenage girl there is a specific time to know her attainment of age ie: the first menstruation and the parents in asia looks- after her very well after she attains age. She is well protected & advised not to associate with her brothers , uncles and other male neighbors!! Whenever she goes -out her brother or her father accompany her!This makes the teenage boys in the family jealous and they also try to win the attention of their parents which are unfortunately denied by them! A boy also needs psychological care from his parents as like his sister,and this should be done in a friendly manner! In asian countries the boys are considered as "men" when hair growth is seen above the upper lip! This is a wrong notion & parents sho...

People pay more and more for sex!

Nowadays the sexual instinct of Asian men & woman has increased to five folds and has become open like their western counterparts. Single girls & widows in eastern countries now vie for secret encounters and other casual fun through internet! The saddest thing is that You may sometimes end-up with your next door neighbor as your discreet sexual contact via the web which seems to be ridiculous! In this closed Asian society men and women do not talk sexual matters to each other and prefer to keep sex as a taboo subject! They continue to maintain this and the children are also reared in this same environment without basic sex education! Finally when they become older and yearn for discreet encounters since the society do not allow them to have the fun in a legal way at an appropriate age! Girls are mostly disappointed than boys and a small touch on body or a kiss electrify them for nothing!! In fact the Asian women are more or less "devoid of sexual" fantasy & pleasu...

Relationship with Girls become ceremonial for a Junac

The junacs or an impotent man will have a ceremonial relationship with a girl. This is due to the reason that he can not have sexual intercourse with a girl!! But when he become senile,the desire for multiple woman partners increases, and he may be willing to have several but of no use! It is like playing with babies.He will kiss and strock every one who comes near to him but without a real sexual desire! In ancient India "yogis"& saints also had the same mental qualities which is unharmful for women but is still seen as "forbidden" in the society. So whether a man becomes as a nudist, sex maniac or as a "yogi"depends mainly up-on his physical & mental strength, childhood traumatic experiences and his personal sexual dealings with other sexes!!. These men have an inclination to drink young boys" semen!! This is a common occurrence prevails among dormitories of christian,Buddhist, Hindu and other religious sects.Most of these are stifled by hea...

The Biological changes between a boy and a girl!

The forceful intervention in biological changes between a boy and a girl determine their character in their life time. This saying is very very important since the deciding factor of a character of a human being does not depend only on hereditary or on DNA factor! Even though they are considered as major factors, the behavior pattern,and the sexual deviation of a child are decided by the people and by the peers around them, specially when they are in their early childhood,or in their Teens! The psychologists say that a boy becomes as a Gay or a girl becomes as a Lesbian is shaped by their sexual experience they might have had during their early childhood.In today's fasting running world,none is there to look-after the child and he or she is left under the care of a servant or with the homes for children at an early age ! Most of the children are left even at the age of two, in kindergartens or with their servants since their parents go to work or engage in social activities for oth...

Incest seems to be natural at an early stage of teenage!!

The incest considered as "taboo" in all societies but in certain instances it happens secretly among young males and females in a family ! It may be unbelievable but it is true! The reason for the incest in a family is because there are no avenues left for the youngsters to express themselves and show their own identities while they grow. It also happen due to strict parentage and harsh disciplinary measures which curb their natural feelings.For instance an elder brother or sister may seduce his or her brother or sister at their early teens! It might also happen due to mutual probing of sexual organs! In extreme unnatural cases fathers molest their own daughters and rarely the sons!! This will certainly bring deep emotional scars to them and they will also feel shy to face each other within the family when they become as matured persons.Incest should be abhorred by all and the parents must allow sufficient room for their off-springs to express themselves! The children must be...