The World

The world is now in the early part of the 21st century and had shrink ed as a global village,where people of all races, religions and communities intermingle with each other. They move from place to place, continent to continent legally or illegally in search of jobs or as guest workers or to get residency in their host countries! Their main aim is to earn money and live happily without the troubles of internal ethnic conflicts,religious violence,bomb blasts,kidnapping & ransom taking ! When moving from their birthplace they leave their "rigid" cultural & socical living patterns behind them and enter into a different social background which is totally alien to their cultural background! In the new environment they could find anything very easily with a click of a mouse or a touch of a mobile phone! Cybersex ,sex clubs,drinks, women & gay men are there for them and they loose their virginity & chastity at an early stage in life in comparison with their asian- c...

I got a different type of experience at the Royal Mail Center,Sheffield when I worked there as a Christmas causal employee!The English people were very good and niece! In fact they are very serious in their work related matters.Now I can not remember the line -Managers' names under whom I worked but still I have got their glimpses in my memory! One line manager was very friendly to me and always called me "vivi". There was also a lady line- manager.She was very kind towards me and taught the worked related issues. At the beginning, I was asked to report for duty during daytime.The job was to sort the parcels & packets at the mail center to different mail sacks colored red,according postal codes! The international parcels were collected in separate mail sacks all together irrepective of their destinations! There were long "Bath-tub" like collection tubs with small caster wheels and they were very difficult to move from one place to another! Some times it veer...

I know that nearly sixty percent of the Asian marriages fail because they do not give importance to true love and affection, but to wealth and status to maintain their living standards! Like their European counterparts they also seek extra marital sexual encounters now a days! The parents and the elders should be blamed for the failed marriages among in Asian couples.The aim of the Asian marriage culture seem to produce off-springs rather than marital bliss or enjoyment in sex !The girls are forbidden to air-out their feelings with their husbands and husbands and elders seemed to take all decisions pertaining to sexual life!Whether the man is an impotent or not the girl would have to take the ultimate responsibility for all failures in marriage and she is requested to show veneration towards her husband!! There exists a FORCED LOVE between couples and which is the fundamental cause for break -downs and divorces in marriages!! In rare occasions this happens to men as well!They marry for...

The sex is the fundamental thing for everything to achieve in the world!The baby cries or show it's dissension if it's prevented from stimulating it's genitals! The bigger children manipulates their genital organs to get pleasure naturally and none teaches them as to how to do it !The fundamental behavior of a human being or an animal is molded by it's parentage and it's sexual relationship with others.If the sex is denied, the living creatures are frustrated and isolate themselves from the society and try to indulge it in a secret manner or in an illegal and unaccepted way!The sex maniacs and pedophiles are the creation of the society to whom they belong to! Surely a sex maniac or a pedophile would have been abused severely by a woman or by a man at an early stages of his life and he or she becomes addicted to this type of sexual pleasure innately.Only a special medical treatment could cure them and not the imprisonment. In fact imprisonment would sometimes makes t...

The meaning of what you mean by "a split personality" is scientifically defined as "a person having "multiple personality within him"! This is caused by the severe suppression of his natural behavior pattern,sensual pleasure or needs in early stages of life specially during childhood,which could have been purposely oppressed by the society mainly due to religious & social factors!! A man could become as a split personality if he had severe emotional suppression in his early stages of life. Due to this reason he may find it very difficult to attain his "mental age" as expected from a normal healthy individual. His physical age will pass as usual but not his mental age! As a result he may receive the following symptoms: Playing and having contacts with small children even though he may be an adult! May become as a pedophile in the later stages of his life! May live in oblivion and may not be interested in social gatherings and normal sexual pleasure...

I became highly religious minded at the age of forty five and started to practice yoga and meditation. I went to a Gujarathi's Krishna Temple in Sheffield whenever I had time even though I could not understand the language of the Gujarathis! The poojas are more or less the same as ours and there was no difficulty for me to concentrate on the poojas! I wanted to change my abnormal behavior and that was very painful for me in the early stages. I did severe yoga practices such as getting up early in the morning and chanting holy "mantras"and religious hymns. During those occasions I controlled my body & mind and started to see the body as merely as a" Body devoid of any senses" attached to it! Gradually I became as a "sidda"( the controller of mind). I could have been suffering due to my past "Karma"(actions) which might have continued since my re-birth! Some occultists said to me that I suffered from an EVIL during the past thirty years and...

When I came to England I had two children: one boy and a girl aged 7 & 3 years respectively. I was very lucky have a beautiful daughter and I loved her very much and she was my world. I kissed her affectionately and said good bye to her before I left to England! I wanted to earn some money in England to look after myself and my family.I instructed my wife to teach English to my children so that they may come to England one day! After I entered England I worked under a Srilankan Barrister after obtaining a work permit . At that time I was paid 3.50 pounds per hour! It was not so bad and I managed to look after myself in England! He helped me to obtain the work permit after six months of my arrival.He found my English was useful to attract the Srilankan clients who did not know English very much! Later I left him and worked days and nights to earn money. I did not want to be a fool in front of my Srilankan clique. Most of the Srilankan guys were very industrious and sent money to the...

I returned to Srilanka in year 1987 and my father told me that he finalized my marriage for a dowry of Rs 400,000 cash and an ancestral property. he said that he needed Rs 200,00 to dispose my elder sister! I did not want to give consent for that marriage because I had not even seen the girl! My father said if I did not marry that particular girl he would hang himself -up! He threatened me and asked my consent under duress. I had no other option but to agree to his suggestion. I thought that I should not have returned home. One day our family went to see the bride. She brought tea to my parents, me, and my sisters. I saw her !! I realized that my father wanted to destroy my future for the sake of money.I objected to this proposal but my father insisted that I marry her. I had no other option but to agree to this sell-off by keeping my pain inside! I was very broken! I still do not have answers,why the Asians destroy their children's future by proposing marriage for money? I coul...