The behaviour of teenage boys!
The behavior of teenage boys aged between 13-18 is a mystery for most parents.The boys have a rash and indiscipline behavior during this period due to the reason that they attain puberty and the pubic hair is grown in genital area! In the case of a teenage girl there is a specific time to know her attainment of age ie: the first menstruation and the parents in asia looks- after her very well after she attains age. She is well protected & advised not to associate with her brothers , uncles and other male neighbors!! Whenever she goes -out her brother or her father accompany her!This makes the teenage boys in the family jealous and they also try to win the attention of their parents which are unfortunately denied by them!
A boy also needs psychological care from his parents as like his sister,and this should be done in a friendly manner! In asian countries the boys are considered as "men" when hair growth is seen above the upper lip! This is a wrong notion & parents should keep that in mind that eventhough the young ones have moustache, they are are still "small children"psychologically and they can not take decisions on their own! Under the circumstances,if love and affection is given only to his sister,the boy becomes jealous and try to become either too smart at home or starts giving trouble to parents.
The symptoms are as follows: he will not speak to his parents and sisters,he will submit his requests in writing,he will always remain in isolation,he will show no interest in studies,he will explore his genitals and will be arrogant! Remember that this behavioural change is to "gain attention" from parents or other elders!!
Apart from this, they may also bring their peers to home and may likely show interest to their opposite sex ! The parents must keep that in mind that it is indeed a natural phenomina and there is no harm in it!If this freedom is denied to them they become aggressive and try to find fault with all who control them!In extreme cases, they become as permanent gays eventhough mutual mastubation and exploration of the genitals are very much common among teenage boys!
Hence during teenage period,parents must be very careful in dealing with their sons than daughters.
Generally the girls of this age group have more stamina, will power and knowledge than boys! This is a prooven fact!
A boy also needs psychological care from his parents as like his sister,and this should be done in a friendly manner! In asian countries the boys are considered as "men" when hair growth is seen above the upper lip! This is a wrong notion & parents should keep that in mind that eventhough the young ones have moustache, they are are still "small children"psychologically and they can not take decisions on their own! Under the circumstances,if love and affection is given only to his sister,the boy becomes jealous and try to become either too smart at home or starts giving trouble to parents.
The symptoms are as follows: he will not speak to his parents and sisters,he will submit his requests in writing,he will always remain in isolation,he will show no interest in studies,he will explore his genitals and will be arrogant! Remember that this behavioural change is to "gain attention" from parents or other elders!!
Apart from this, they may also bring their peers to home and may likely show interest to their opposite sex ! The parents must keep that in mind that it is indeed a natural phenomina and there is no harm in it!If this freedom is denied to them they become aggressive and try to find fault with all who control them!In extreme cases, they become as permanent gays eventhough mutual mastubation and exploration of the genitals are very much common among teenage boys!
Hence during teenage period,parents must be very careful in dealing with their sons than daughters.
Generally the girls of this age group have more stamina, will power and knowledge than boys! This is a prooven fact!
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